Your wedding vows are one of the most personal and memorable moments of your big day. Whether you’re writing them from scratch or borrowing inspiration from classic traditions, your words will echo in your hearts (and videos) for years to come. As someone who’s been part of hundreds of weddings as a DJ and MC, I’ve seen vows that made people laugh, cry, and even dance!
Here are some expert tips—including a few straight from me, DJ iSizzle—to help you write wedding vows that truly capture your love story.
1. Start Early
Don’t wait until the night before your wedding to write your vows. Give yourself at least a few weeks to reflect on your relationship, jot down memories, and revise your words.
DJ iSizzle Tip: “The best vows I’ve heard come from couples who take time to rehearse out loud. It’s not just what you say—it’s how you say it. Practice helps you slow down, breathe, and let those emotions flow naturally.”
2. Make It Personal
Skip the generic clichés. Think about the quirks, inside jokes, and shared adventures that make your love story unique. Talk about what you admire about your partner, the moment you knew they were “the one,” and what you’re looking forward to in your future together.
Example: “I promise to always split the last slice of pizza—even though we both know you deserve it more after your long week.”
3. Keep It Short and Sweet
Try to aim for 1 to 2 minutes max. Anything longer and you risk losing the moment (and your audience).
DJ iSizzle Tip: “Short vows hit harder. I’ve watched people cry in just 30 seconds because the words were real. It’s not about length—it’s about heart.”
4. Write in “Your Voice”
Don’t worry about sounding poetic or perfect. Just speak from the heart in your own voice. If you’re naturally funny, add some humor. If you’re romantic, lean into that.
Pro Tip: Read your vows to a friend who knows both of you well. If they tear up or laugh at the right spots—you nailed it.
5. Make Promises That Matter
Vows are, at their core, promises. Think beyond “I love you.” What are you committing to? It could be “I promise to be your rock,” “I vow to grow with you,” or “I promise to never go to bed angry (unless there’s a playoff game).”
DJ iSizzle Tip: “I once saw a groom vow to ‘always be the first one on the dance floor with you’—and guess what? They both tore it up to their first song. That’s the energy.”
6. Bring a Backup Copy
Nerves can get the best of anyone. Have a printed or handwritten copy just in case emotions or memory fail you in the moment.
Bonus: Keep those vow cards. They’re a beautiful keepsake!
7. Coordinate with Your DJ or MC
Timing is everything. If your vows are part of the ceremony or a special moment during the reception, make sure your DJ is in the loop to cue the perfect background music, mic volume, or even a soft fade-in for a dramatic effect.
DJ iSizzle Insight: “I love helping couples create cinematic vow moments with custom background tracks. It’s like scoring your own movie scene. Goosebumps every time.”
Final Thought
Your vows are a gift to your partner and a declaration to your loved ones. Don’t stress perfection—focus on truth, love, and authenticity.
And if you ever need the perfect song to follow those vows with a spin-worthy celebration… you know who to call.