Choosing the right wedding playlist can be exciting. However, deciding which songs to avoid can be just as important.
Some songs sound romantic at first. Yet, their lyrics may tell a very different story. Others simply do not match the mood of a wedding celebration.
Of course, every couple is different. A song that one couple avoids may be meaningful to another.
Still, understanding the meaning behind a song can help you make informed choices. Here are five songs couples may want to think twice about adding to their wedding playlist.
1. “Every Breath You Take” — The Police
At first, “Every Breath You Take” by The Police can sound like a romantic love song.
However, the lyrics tell a darker story. The song focuses on obsession and possessive behavior.
Because of that, it may not fit the message many couples want to share on their wedding day.
That said, the song remains a popular classic. If you love the song, you can always enjoy it outside of your wedding playlist.
2. “Gold Digger” — Kanye West
Next is “Gold Digger” by Kanye West.
The song takes a humorous and critical look at relationships involving money. However, the subject matter may not fit a celebration centered on love and commitment.
For that reason, couples may want to leave this one off their wedding playlist.
On the other hand, it can still work at other types of parties. The key is knowing your audience and choosing music that fits the occasion.
3. “I Will Always Love You” — Whitney Houston
“I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston is one of the most recognizable love songs of all time.
Yet, the story behind the song is not quite what the title suggests. The lyrics focus on saying goodbye to someone and moving on.
As a result, the song may feel out of place during certain wedding moments.
Still, context matters. If the song has special meaning to you and your partner, there is no reason you cannot include it.
4. “Love Stinks” — The J. Geils Band
Then we have “Love Stinks” by The J. Geils Band.
The title alone might be enough to raise a few eyebrows at a wedding!
More importantly, the song focuses on heartbreak and the frustrations of love. Therefore, it probably does not match the positive message of most wedding celebrations.
If your goal is to keep the dance floor upbeat and romantic, this is one song you may want to skip.
5. “My Heart Will Go On” — Celine Dion
Finally, there is “My Heart Will Go On” by Celine Dion.
The song is a beautiful and emotional ballad. However, it is strongly connected to the movie Titanic and its tragic love story.
Because of that connection, some couples may prefer a different love song for their wedding.
Nevertheless, the song can still be meaningful. Once again, the most important factor is what the music means to you.
Do Not Play Lists Are Personal
Creating a wedding “do not play” list can be helpful. It gives your DJ a clear idea of the music you want to avoid.
At the same time, there are no universal rules.
For example, one couple may love a song because it reminds them of their first date. Another couple may hear the exact same song and want nothing to do with it.
Therefore, your wedding playlist should reflect you.
Work With Your Wedding DJ
A professional wedding DJ can help you build a playlist that fits your celebration.
Start by sharing your favorite songs and musical styles. Then, provide a list of songs you definitely do not want played.
Also, let your DJ know about important family traditions and special moments. This information can help shape the music throughout the reception.
Most importantly, talk openly about your expectations.
A great wedding playlist is not simply a collection of popular songs. Instead, it should help tell your story and create the atmosphere you want.
So, before adding a song because it sounds romantic, take a moment to check the lyrics.
You might discover a completely different story.
And when in doubt, ask your wedding DJ!
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